I asked a friend: what is the one principle that you hold strong in life? Friend: always think for others, i think... me: YA! always put others 1st...(can I really do that?) then the thought goes on...God challenged me not only to put other first, but love others with Christ's love...ok, yes i will! with God's help... let's identify 'others'... homosexual, muslim, buddhist, whom i hate, whom hate me, whom i hurt, whom hurt me, whom i thought they are not worthy to be loved, whom cheats, kills, destroys, the poor, those lack of hugs, whom i thought i care enough but actually not, whom i dont have patience with, abandoned child, elderly, stubborn people, and... God, i need You.